Wednesday, April 24, 2013

“Have the courage to say no. Have the courage to face the truth. Do the right thing because it is right. These are the magic keys to living your life with integrity.”


An important American writer, William Clement Stone once said: “Have the courage to say no. Have the courage to face the truth. Do the right thing because it is right. These are the magic keys to living your life with integrity.” These words describe and explain to perfection life’s meaning to me. What Clement meant by it is, that you must learn how to take responsibility of your acts, wether they brought wrong or great consequences. He’s saying that whether reality and the truth aren’t nice, we must face them. If we are ever stuck in a situation when we aren’t completely convinced, we must have the courage to stand up and say no. Doing what is right shouldn’t be done because it’s an obligation, or a path into becoming a role model, we must simply do it because it is what is right. Finally, he says that being courageous enough to do these three things, we’ll receive the secrets of living life righteously and flawlessly.
 I don’t consider myself the most adventurous and heroic girl ever, but I do know something about myself even though I am quite insecure sometimes: I am determined, fair, honest, firm and bold. These principles that Clement mentions, are always present during my day. Whenever I don’t want something, or don’t agree with something: I’m not afraid to say no. Wether the news aren’t the best, or my action’s results aren’t what I expected, I am able to face them and deal with them. I am also convinced to always do what is right, wether the circumstances make the right thing the most difficult, right is what must be done. And, wether my decisions make me stand alone, then alone I shall stand. In the end, I’m sure that ruling my acts by these principles will make me get far someday.


Friday, April 12, 2013

Killing The Enemy: Chapters 20 to 25 “Things Fall Apart” by Chinua Achebe


A Chinese military, around 400 BC, once said, “Keep your friends close, and your enemies closer.” I bet you have heard it somewhere before, but do we really understand what he wanted to tell us? Perhaps, if Africans had listened to this man, they would’ve stood a chance against colonization. Perhaps, if Umuofia had followed this proverb, it wouldn’t have fallen as it did, and above all, maybe, someone’s life would have been spared. But now, think about this, if you don’t even know what war means, how could you ever think of it as a possibility? I believe, this is exactly what happened to once powerful and fearful Umuofia, the Igbo do not have a fighting culture and when we try changing people’s believes, it may end up even worse than war. If you wonder what kind of changes, I’ll remind you about some: a church has recently arrived in Umuofia as well as a trading store and a government, which include a court, a prison, a District Commissioner and court messengers.

There was some time, with Mr. Brown, when both cultures respected each other and lived peacefully. They avoided fights and even learnt from each other. Igbos trusted his medicine as well as his advice of learning to read and write, but sadly, he becomes sick and leaves his flock. A new reverend arrives, James Smith, along with new conflicts. He didn’t follow Mr Brown’s policies, he simply saw things white or black. His savage attitude drove serious conflicts such as the unmasking an egwuwu. All Umuofians feel confused and miserable, however, they remain calm (following Ajofi’s opinion) and instead speak to Mr Smith. They also decide to burn the church down, receiving pleasure from it, but probably regretting it once they are summoned by the District Commissioner, who imprisons all six leaders (including Okonkwo) and oppressed them for three days, until a ridiculous fine was paid by the entire town.

For the first time, during a meeting, we listen to a village hungry for fight, but things turn out wrong when court messengers arrive with orders to stop the meeting. This strong anger that we have seen in Okonkwo growing bigger day by day makes it easy to predict his next moves. He rushes through the crowd, faces the messenger and slaughters him with a machete. The Commissioner eventually came looking for Okonkwo, but Obierika led him to a tree, were Okonkwo’s body hung. Such sin could not be handled by Umuofian’s townspeople, asking for the Comissioner’s help to take the body down. The Comissioner’s decision to not help because “it’d make others think he’s less powerful” and instead recording this incident on his book, “The pacification of primitive tribes of the lower Niger”, are the biggest revelations on his true intentions: studying, analysing and gathering information on just another unusual insect he found on his way home.

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Okonkwo’s tragic ending, more than wanting to show courage by killing himself meant there was no way out. By listening to his people wonder why he’d kill the messenger he reached his highest level of sensitivity, he could bear no longer such lack of action, he felt everything was hopeless. Having wanted the most to show his power, resistance and manliness, ironically, takes him to end exactly as his father, just another body left to rot on the Evil Forest. Above all these reasons, Okonkwo ended his life as trying to save his sanity, his pride. It’s as if he was saying: “you may change other people’s believes, but I’d rather kill myself before you put a finger on me.” So as I said before, perhaps, this tragic ending wouldn’t’ have finished this way if Umuofian’s had learnt to stick together, perhaps not as the Chinese proverb said, but they surely didn’t listen to what their friend Obierika once told them: “They have put a knife into the things that held us together and we have fallen apart.”      

Achebe, Ch. (1994), Things Fall Apart, 1st edition, Anchor Books, New York.